Celebrating Summer Solstice

Mary-Jo Fetterly Solstice 2025

Celebrating summer solstice this year was a quiet and inward experience for me, unlike many previous years where the warm sun and longer days included late-night dinners socializing, accentuated with that idyllic summertime lightness of being. This year, the weather is cooler with lots of gloomy clouds, and there are many other dark things happening that could be considered, on the shadowy side.

Many of us are perplexed, some outraged, and others completely distraught at the “state of the world” at this pivotal time. The increasing rise and dangers of fascism, the burgeoning climate crisis, alongside the relentless drive for fossil fuel. The increase of poverty despite unprecedented wealth—which contributes to the plague of racism, displacing millions of humans from their homes. To heat things up even more, the very real threat of nuclear war with tensions over in the Middle East and the Trump administration’s recent direct involvement.

And yet, some people are completely in a state of denial—likely the 50% who elected Trump, while others are in a state of distraction—as if living on a completely different planet, with the rest deeply concerned, not knowing how to ‘put-out the fire’ of inhumane acts overseas, how to help or support. Nevertheless we all likely experience the restless uncertainty of our challenging, rapidly changing times. In conversation with family and friends, I ask: “How do you think we can help and why don’t more of us do so?” Their reply is: “It has to be closer to home for us to act.”

Stunned I reply: “Do you mean to say that we all have to suffer before there’s change?” I comment that the climate crisis is affecting many people in the western world and yet, do we notice any demonstrative change on that front? Not really.

Mary-Jo Fetterly Summer Solstice 2025

And so, here I make my case, that although we are in many different types of crises right now, the only way out is to realize what is the actual root cause of the crises. One thing I feel is that it isn’t the bigger louder symptomatic problems of our material world.This is a crisis where I believe, if we all took it upon ourselves to solve this one “actual crisis” we would likely solve all the problems of our world. And so, what kind of crisis are we in? We are in a Spiritual Crisis.

 

We have lost our sense of interconnection to each other’s humanity, to each other, to our home and to life itself—yet we don’t call it a spiritual crisis, but it is.

 

We think that we are superior to the life force, the extraordinary intelligence of the Creator Spirit (God) that sustains and provides life force energy into all of us and the universe. We have lost our grace, our humility and our capacity to see awe and wonder in the everyday miracles that Life offers us, so we take it for granted.

 

We use, abuse, take and exploit the Life force, we fear but don’t revere it. We are continually at odds with it, and with ourselves. We have become unhealthy and unhappy—addicted, medicated and generally dysfunctional. Sexuality, self-worth, morality, place and purpose, physicality are at odds within many. We suffer, as we give our ego’s more and more power. Our spirits and our hearts are displaced. They have no home, and they don’t know where they belong or come from anymore.

We can not live in a world that is not our own, in a world that is interpreted for us by others. An interpreted world is not a home. Part of the terror is to take back our own listening, to use our own voice, to see our own light.” (Hildegard of Bingen, 12 C.)

We are certainly in crisis. Most definitely a self-identity, ie, a spiritual crisis. I mean, I’m no Guru or Saint, but many of them would say that the biggest impediment to humanity’s liberation and personal freedom is humans’ incapacity to see past the illusion of the small-self and the material world, to truly know the GreaterSelf. Most of our spiritual and subsequent religious traditions refer to this unified field of consciousness (from science) as the web-of-Life, of surrendering the idea of a separate ego-Will, (possession, survival, fixated, attached) with Divine Will (peaceful, loving, expansive, unconditional awareness). To know who and what we are, within the whole.

 

Why Does It Matter?

When the ego loosens, you experience:

  • More peace, compassion, and clarity.

  • Less suffering from grasping, comparison, and control.

  • A sense of being held or guided, rather than always in charge.

     

It’s not a state of disconnection but one of deep belonging—to life, to love, to something greater.

It is the illusion of the small self to believe that power belongs to the personal self, when in fact none of what animates us, is ours. The ‘I’ of us, is fundamentally, pure, free and forever, immortal, not the body or personality.

 

Ask yourself…

Who am I without my thoughts, my story, or my name?

Sit in silence with that. You might discover a presence, an aliveness—spacious and aware. That’s the beginning of recognizing the Greater Self.

 

It is horrific that so many are traumatized, losing their homes. It is no wonder that many more feel that we have collectively lost our home, our sacred place of refuge, value and community. Our places of shared social belonging, social contribution: of service, brotherhood sisterhood, motherhood, fatherhood, family including the land that we’ve loved, worked and stewarded with our sweat and memories; all are threatened. To realize that our entire world is in danger—our whole planet and all sentient beings, with whom we share our earthly home, is disturbing. This due to the ridiculous absolutely insane actions of ones so greedy, manipulative, dishonest and corrupt they will put everyone at great risk and everything in danger.

 

The heads of state have totally betrayed and abused us and our home,
for their egocentric addiction to power.

My conversation with family turned into a robust dialogue on all the above with various calls to action. The first call is a commitment to our own spiritual growth and personal development. Moving from ego consciousness to Self-realization means paying attention to your motivations, your thoughts and your internal dialogue. This involves healing then integration of shadow, persona, and unconscious material. Replace ego identification and separation by developing a sense of interconnectedness, purpose, and wholeness beyond personal success or validation. Social CTA’s focused on various types of peaceful protest and collective action. These social based actions also included creating small interactive groups to exchange ideas and in particular to envision a new way of being together on planet Earth.

 

At the end of the day, we all want happiness and personal freedom.

 

What is freedom? Freedom is self-determination: the ability to act with integrity, consistency, and from a place of sovereignty, self-awareness, self-love, self-reliance, self-regard, regard for life, regard for others, regard for the gift of life and regard to paying it forward. Freedom is when you are innately in tune with Creator Life-force, when you completely understand all is one. Freedom is when you don’t fear your body, death or pain, you respect them. Freedom is when you release attachment for approval from others and your sovereign mind is bathed in equanimity. When your power is not addicted nor derived from force rather the verb to love, and co-create with the life force.

 

Those who are aligned with the Creator Spirit are self-assured in a humility that is derived from autonomy of spiritual responsibility, and the contentment that comes from surrender to something greater than oneself.

 

Not life-destroying, always and in all-ways Life affirming.

 

Blessed be,

Mary-Jo

Mary-Jo Fetterly Yoga

Nostalgia, Innocence & Geronimo

Is nostalgia a feeling for innocence that we’ve lost? Or is our innocence lost if we aren’t occasionally nostalgic, fully embracing all parts of ourselves as we move through the journey of life; past, present, and future?

In the words of David Whyte, the wonderful philosopher, poet whom I am fortunate to sit with on Summer Sundays:  

“Innocence is not a commodity that is supposed to be replaced by experience. Innocence is our ability to be found by the world again and again at each new threshold in our life.”

This helps me to understand my nostalgia and the subsequent pangs of grief wafting through me, following my recent trip to Nelson.

Farewell Geronimo

Nelson is the remarkable community in the Kootenays where I raised my daughters and our animal family. Geronimo, a regal black stallion, was a noble and noteworthy member. He is symbolic in untold ways of myself and my girls during a unique time in our lives. Metaphorically, he gifted us with harnessing our own raw power. He was a living presence, an embodiment of how a powerful being can be both full of the potency of fierce life-energy and spirit, but as gentle as a benevolent grandparent. On this pilgrimage we celebrated and then sadly bid farewell to Geronimo as he crossed over the rainbow bridge. Our journey continued on with a book signing at Otter Books, and Yasodhara Ashram in Nelson.

Pilgrimage

Upon deeper and quiet reflection, as I age I encounter more of these significant passages. They all represent a pilgrimage from one place in time, one way of being, to an entirely new time and perspective. They are simultaneously disruptive, and heartening.

I had to find the spaciousness and compassion to hold the grief, as well as all the other memories moving through my body and emotions to allow my heart and senses to fully be with all of what is, what was and what may be. Assimilating all of this whilst supported by the wonderful care and companionship of David Whyte and his work, I realized that it is what we care about, that we are most nostalgic for. I came to the realization that it is through caring that we tap into our innocence repeatedly.

Caring

Caring is part of how we arrive here, get by here and leave here. Caring is fundamental to human nature and survival. We all witness how terribly wrong things may go when we don’t care for one another. Writing my book, Where Science Meets Spirit, and this blog I do because I care deeply about humanity and our collective future. I also care about you and your feedback and sincerely appreciate your support.

 

On that note, feel free to drop me a line on the website, and if you’ve read my book, please write a review on Amazon. Be sure to check my website for updates on upcoming events and book signings this fall.I will also be releasing videos on Youtube with a reading from the book and spaces for discussion. In addition, there will be practices for you so that together we may delve into the subject matter more fully.

 

Until next time, enjoy your journeyings.

 

With much love & care,

 

Mary-Jo

Celebrating Solstice 2024

Fellow travellers, 

A unique and enchanting birdsong called in to me at 5 am each morning this past week during my ambrosia hour rituals. With the increase of light in June in the North, many people all over the world — particularly the northern hemisphere will be celebrating Summer Solstice, June 21st. I love how traditions of this type go back in time before electricity, before technology, before we became so out of touch with the mystery of life. An extraordinary sunset, a life-changing solar eclipse, a fierce volcanic eruption, a novel and captivating birdsong, oh the beauties and wonders of our own sacred planet.

Touchstones & Connection

Traditions shared globally are significant touchstones of our mutual humanity and connectedness, especially those earmarked by nature like a rare total eclipse — because nature is neutral—without race, religion, dogma, opinion, or creed. Nature is always reminding us of our relationship to something beyond our mortal grasping. These awe-inspiring moments often render us small and somewhat insignificant within our human egos, to something great, something beyond even our comprehension or understanding.

 

In Greenland and beyond however, the fierceness of Nature causing awe, is also causing unsettling destruction to people’s lives.  Events out of the ordinary like an eclipse will cause a disruption in the established order of daily life. These events, therefore, have the power to make us feel small — as the locus of control is clearly not ours, but usually something outside of normal, beyond our material world.

Greenland

Rituals & Traditions

Turns out it’s ok to acknowledge our (surprising to us) identity as insignificant in relation to the great Intelligence that holds this whole spinning universe together. Of course, major disruptions may not be OK in our physical reality and that is where we need grounding, routine and ritual to mitigate feeling overwhelmed or completely devastated. Traditions celebrated through rituals can keep us stable and grounded during turbulent times.

Routine, David Whyte Quote

Most of us are painfully afraid of our own inherent, brilliance and light, that part of us—the mysterious, can only be access when the ego truly moves out of the way. That’s what happens when we practice the routine of ritual. Silence, presence and order give way to intuitive brilliance. That solitary little bird who came to my morning ritual so beautifully this week is related to Gemini represented in the month of June.  Both ask us to tune into our intuition and remain calm, curious and to balance on the fence as the observer, by practicing equanimity watching all of these events with compassion and yet a clear sense of neutrality.

I celebrate my tradition of sending out a solstice newsletter with you by the announcement of my book Where Science Meets Spirit-The Autobiography of a Paralyzed Yogi, being published and ready for reading. You can find all about my book signing events and where to purchase it on my website:  Mary-Jo – Where Science Meets Spirit

Blessings,

Mary-Jo

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